Develop a Practice of Coaching

Deepen your coaching skills and engage families with a coaching mindset.

Get to Know Family-Centered Coaching:

Families don’t segment their lives and goals into silos and programs. But funding requirements, organizational missions, and other barriers tend to focus social programs on one aspect of a participant’s life. As a result, families experiencing poverty face added obstacles and stress as they attempt to piece together fractured services with differing eligibility requirements, duplicate applications, and unfamiliar case managers. 

Family-Centered Coaching is an approach to meet the interconnected needs of a participant’s life and family. By shifting from what services an organization offer to what a family needs, organizations practicing Family-Centered Coaching see transformational outcomes that deeply connect to participants’ goals and dreams for their futures.

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Family-Centered Coaching Overview

Family-Centered Coaching is a set of strategies, tools, and resources that help human service organizations reinvent how they engage with families experiencing poverty. Family-Centered Coaching…
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Family-Centered Coaching FAQ

Welcome to our FAQ! These are the frequently asked questions we often receive about Family-Centered Coaching. If you don’t see your question answered here, please…
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Family-Centered Coaching Principles

The following principles emerged from successful efforts partnering with participants in Family-Centered Coaching. Full-Family Focus Coaches address the interests of all members in a family,…
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Build a Family-Centered Coaching Mindset:

A Family-Centered Coaching mindset is about how coaches and organizations see and engage with participants and their families. Using a Family-Centered Coaching mindset means moving from thinking about individual participants to taking the whole family into consideration. 

Coaches who have a Family-Centered Coaching mindset value families’ expertise in their own lives rather than believing the coach has all the answers. They use a strengths-based approach that builds on the ways parents are already successful and the support systems they cultivate. 

One of the most effective ways to intentionally adopt a Family-Centered Coaching mindset is to put the ten Family-Centered Coaching principles into practice. Primary to these principles is the understanding of the institutional forces that can prevent families from moving forward: the long and persistent effects of systemic racism and poverty are at the root of many family challenges.

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Why Our Mindsets Matter

A mindset is a mental attitude or tendency that goes beyond an ordinary belief. Mindsets influence how we see ourselves, how we view others, and…
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Develop Family-Centered Coaching Skills

Coaches who practice Family-Centered Coaching skills create exceptional experiences, for themselves and participants. Coaches practice these skills to create both the boundaries and opportunities to put the principles of Family-Centered Coaching into action.

The four core coaching skills of Family-Centered Coaching create a space to build stronger relationships with participants based on trust and transparency. Additional key situational coaching skills can then maintain accountability and foster progress. Together, the practice of these skills create a satisfying, ongoing partnership based on deep mutual respect.

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Situational Family-Centered Coaching Skills

Key situational coaching skills maintain mutual accountability and foster progress within Family-Centered Coaching. Situational Coaching Skill: Acknowledging Coaches use the skill of Acknowledging to reflect…
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Prepare Yourself & Your Environment For Coaching

For some staff, adopting family-centered approaches may require a fundamental shift in the way you work with participants. These approaches require a change in the power dynamic and the relationship, especially if you are used to being the expert at resolving problems. To work with participants to support them to find their own solutions to their challenges will be a different dynamic.

It is important for coaches to get into a positive mindset before working with participants. You can do several things before and during a meeting with participants to support you in holding a positive mindset.

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Self Care and Management

Self-management and self-care go hand-in-hand in creating an environment for coaches and participants to partner with respect. Self Management Coaches believe deeply that participants have…
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Bring Family Into the Coaching Conversation

Families don’t thrive by focusing on only one aspect of their lives at a time. Family-Centered Coaching is an opportunity to widen the lens we may see participants through to align with theirs. 

Whether coaches work in workforce development, early learning, housing or some other program, they use Family-Centered Coaching to bring family into the coaching conversation. 

  • Reflect on how your organization can support families to address multiple areas of their lives to reach their interrelated family goals.
  • Use the Hopes & Dreams and Who Is In My Family? tools with participants to build a relationship through the lens of family.

Choose Which Coaching Role to Play

Family-Centered Coaching recognizes that families are most successful when supported by a range of approaches. Because change is not linear, families can benefit from the use of case management, readiness assessment, and goal-setting approaches at different times and for different areas of their lives. Coaches work with participants to identify the best approach at a given time, with the intention of moving toward setting, practicing, and reaching a family’s life goals. 

For example, a family may start with a goal of finding a job but then lose their apartment. The participant and coach may decide to pause pursuing the job and move to case management to solve the urgent housing issue.

In another example, a participant started with the goal of becoming a nurse, but after many meetings hasn’t taken the steps discussed during the coaching sessions. The participant and coach decide to step back and assess readiness for change using motivational interviewing to help identify what is going on for the participant. 

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Fluidity of Approach

Identifying when to use each approach is one of the central skills of Family-Centered Coaching. It is critical to talk with participants about the different…
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Family-Centered Coaching Approaches

The Approach Wheel highlights three major approaches to working with families: case management, readiness assessment, and goal-setting. Coaches and participants may decide to switch approaches…
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Tool: Roles a Coach Can Play

This tool supports the Family-Centered Coaching principles of transparency and collaboration. By being transparent about the different roles a coach can play, you keep the…
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The Stages of Change

The Stages of Change identify the emotional and psychological states many people go through when making a change in their lives. Use the stages of…
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Referring

Staff at all levels must know when they need to seek additional help because a participant is experiencing mental health or other challenges. This can…
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Discover and Support Family Priorities

Family-Centered Coaching is a strengths-based approach that puts participants in the driver’s seat to determine what results they want to achieve through coaching. Coach and participant are equal partners in the coaching process, but each have distinct roles: the participant sets the agenda and the coach guides the process.

Participants may have several areas of their life in which they would like to make changes. Coaches create opportunities for participants to identify and prioritize those goals. The coach and participant discuss and agree how they want to work together based on the family’s interrelated interests and the participant’s priorities. 

The Wheel of Life can be used with the participant to identify both core strengths and needs, and to assess where families want to focus. For each area of the Wheel of Life, there is a tool below that lists:

  • Powerful questions and other family-centered inquiries
  • Resources to identify in your community
  • General tools and resources related to the topic
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Tool: The Wheel Of Life

This tool explores a family’s overall well-being, prioritize areas of life to work on, and set initial goals. Parents can use The Wheel of Life…
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Support the Practice of Goals

In Family-Centered Coaching, coaches guide the practice setting and reaching small, incremental, short-term steps towards larger milestones. Through practice, people are able to build skills and experience wins as they move towards their milestones. 

Milestones are essentially large goals. They are the big events, such as getting a job, completing a GED, or finding an affordable apartment. These large milestones are sometimes overwhelming because they actually contain many smaller steps. 

The quick wins of succeeding in smaller initial steps can also happen in shorter time frames. For example, a participant may have a goal to help their child succeed in school. An initial step might be to schedule a meeting with the teacher. The steps under this can be: write a list of questions to ask the teacher, draft an email asking the teacher for a meeting, review the email with the coach, identify times the participant can meet with the teacher, and send an email to the teacher. 

As steps are completed and momentum is gained, more steps can be made that reach further into the future. Coaches can scaffold their help during this time so that the participants takes more and more actions that leverage increased skills.

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The Practice of Goals

People often set goals based on the results they way to see. For example, someone might set a goal to purchase a car, go back…
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Tool: Plan, Do, Review

Use this tool to help participants make specific plans to take steps and practice their self-defined goals. Participants and coaches can also use the tool…
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